I was remembering that two weeks after my H moved out I saw a pic of him on FB with THREE women with their arms all around each other and holding wine glasses and smiling. I called H at midnight and at 6 am wanting to talk about the R. I only slept one hour that night. (I hadn't registered here yet but was reading.). On the phone my H nearly said we were through! I was horrified! I quickly backpedalled.
Here's an entry from my journal from April 6, 2012:
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So I have a lot of work to do. And I'm afraid. I also feel not only did I set the clock back to zero, but I pushed us back some. He doesn't miss me or us and with more times like this, he won't either!
So...my point is???
Do what Bond said. Don't worry about what the text means. Back off and start working on YOU.
Like he said, "you can do it". You really can.
Go over some of the advice to you recently. Make some lists and decisions tonight. Then roll up your sleeves!!!
Hugs, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway