Go back to your post about the conversation. He did say some positive things such as how he wouldn't like it if you were seeing someone else and that it hurt him to see the photos, etc. However, what he doesn't truly understand (despite the fact that he says he does)is that the conflict is all within him. It isn't the photos that hurt him. It's himself.
When he talks like that, that's when you're supposed to validate how he feels. However, you interjected what makes YOU happy and what YOU miss, etc. When you said that YOU missed your house, he said you should find your own place. Right now it has to be all about him.
You don't need to agree to what his actions are, but you have to agree that he has a right to feel the way he does. He has to work these things out himself.
I really am sorry you're feeling the way you do. You have to hone your listening skills more when it comes to him.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
