Is this MLC or WAS? Don't know what to do...

[BrightFuture]

Portia, thanks for the hugs. My H is actually actively trying to separate other things we have in common, like cell phone, insurance, etc. He hasn’t done it yet, but told me multiple times about his intentions. The only thing he has accomplished is to get on VA medical, and he is pretty happy about it. Me too, less money to pay for insurance.

I haven’t discussed the business assets with DB coach. The only thing DB coach suggested is to agree for H to use the house address for his mail and allow him to leave his car at the house. Which I did.

I have mixed feelings about the car now. This morning I was not feeling good about this, it is just seating there on the drive way and remind me about my broken M. I will see how I feel tomorrow.

I cried last night after he left. I called one of my GFs and talked to her for a while. She tried to console me. This morning she left me a message and pretty much told me that she can’t stand me hurting anymore and I should just cut him off completely, end it, tell him that he cannot leave his car here, and so on. She told me that I need to move on.

So, I’m losing my friends’ support. This board is the only place I can express my feeling freely from now on. I wish I would get more responses from the veterans. Maybe my sitch is just so hopeless… But, I’m very grateful to everyone who’s taken time to read my sitch and give me some advice, or just hugs…