Great job with detaching, 2.4, excellent. Her mood should not influence your mood. And doesn't that throw them for just a bit of a loop when they notice the 'safety net' has been rolled up?

And do you think it's a coincidence that suddenly she's all but printing out her itinerary for you for her trip this time? I think not. She might be trying to subtly make it clear to you that she's not going to do anything that might upset you on her trip. Could be she's hoping you'll keep the home fires burnin until she returns.

You've made some great progress, 2.4. Bravo.

M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13