BANG! Bomb Drop Number Two

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Well I may have spoken too soon, as her mood dropped like a rock this afternoon. However I think its because she was stressed and tired, and also something came up which probably made my wife realise that she still needs to consider reality.

Every time something knocks over her fantasy land apple cart and reality kicks in she turns, becomes cold, snaps at me or finds fault in my actions again. She also started dropping in the odd comment on being apart again. Predictable really. Sign that I am detaching, because it did not bother me one bit.

I am not, at the moment, relating this mood to her trip. Until the above came up she was more than happy as mentioned in my last post.

As for secretive? Well - she has told me once or twice, that she is staying with a particular friend. The rest of the time she just refers to her and her friend as 'we', but she has told me the hotel she will be staying in during her time away.

In contrast last time she went away, she stayed in a totally different city to where she had told me she was going. So, yes that was her being secretive. This was during my snooping period, and it nearly pushed me over the edge when I found out where she was staying. Never, am I doing that again!!

So FY I hope you are right, I hope its excitement because of the trip away and this time she is going where she says, and who she says she is with. If not - well, not a lot I can do about it!