T^2, you nailed it right on the head! That's exactly what I was thinking. W doesn't want to be responsible for my needs (fanTAStic insight, BTW),, but she seems resentful that I'm having too much fun or that I'm not pursuing her more.

Mtnman, do you see this ad well? Perhaps W is interested again because you've been getting along just fine without her?

M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13