Great points (and questions) T, RH and KD, thank you!

T - I did dip my toe in the water last week with a key contact. We will see where it goes, but at my executive level, jobs don't make it to the paper or online, you have to network and I have started. But, it could easily take 6-12 month, even if I was focused on it.

RH - I would accept the vicariously thing more if I didn't see the full frontal nudity pictures of this guy that are on the bottom of the bag my wife carries with her every day. That image is burned in my mind (and presumably hers?) and if she hadn't pm'd him when she was there. Plus, this makes me think of the "believe half of what they do and none of what they say" line. Tough to buy that story knowing what I know. I don't think there is an PA, but I do think she fantasizes (or at least fantasized) about it and just wasn't being honest to her friend (or perhaps to herself).

KD - I love that town. Went to college and law school there, still have season tickets to college basketball there even though I sell most of the tickets, and enjoy going there immensely. Just that we now live here and have for 3 years and I like it here a lot too. And the kids love it here and just moved three years ago, I don't want them to feel like military kids.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"