Thanks FY. I've heard "I want to be free" and "I'm not the same person anymore" speeches. Similar enough to what you've heard.

I keep having to remind myself that I didn't break her so I can't fix her. Your advice did help.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later