Maybe take MLC and tat-boy out of the equation...would you at least look around and explore for a job there? You wrote:
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The irony is, there is some logic in where she wants to move and why. We loved it there, I graduated from there, lot's of positives there. There is the one MINOR DETAIL that I don't have a job there,
Yes, in this economy the job thing is HUGE, I get that.
But, what if W leaves and moves there anyway, without you, what would that look like with custody, etc?
What if you find a good job there and move, and W still leaves?
What if she doesn't?
You do have a very valid point about getting to somewhere to stay put for the high school years.
I guess my point is, would it hurt to just privately explore the job market there (maybe I missed it if you have already, if so, my apologies), even if just so YOU know what is possible? Take a bit of the unknown out of your mind?
And THEN look at things as they are, with more full knowledge of all the ramifications and terrain.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
