Both. Truth is, were it not wrapped in an MLC, the idea and logic of moving back there would not be all bad. The issue of me not having a job there is huge, obviously, but the kids are at an age where we either dig in and stay here for a while, or we try to move sooner, well before high school. But again, the MLC thing is weighing in and I don't want to make a huge life decision based on the cloud my W is in, plus, I know that the tat-boy thing plays a role in this and the air needs to be cleared on that before we can really look at this seriously.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"