So, wife texts me today, and I would like some input on this because it seems so strange to me.
This weekend is a Canadian Holiday. Our business will be PACKED. We throw a small dance every year that I DJ for our customers, as well as lots of events for the kids during the weekend. In wifes text, she asked me if there was going to be a theme for the dance because she wanted to put some outfits together for her and daughter.....WHAAAAAT? She is coming to the dance that I am DJing for our customers? How insanely awkward that is going to be. The first really big event weekend and wife and I will be at opposite ends of an extremely small dance floor? If she wants away from me, my family and this business WHY is she attending our special events?
I didn't mention any of the awkwardness in my reply, just told her there wasn't a theme. I really did feel like asking her not to attend. I knew I probably shouldn't say anything, so I didn't. It does however feel very uncomfortable for me. Would I be out of line sending her a message asking her not to attend any of the events we are putting on? I mean for Gods sake, she wanted to go away....GO AWAY ALREADY! Let me start my new future without looking at her face everytime I turn around. It makes detaching almost impossible for me. I see her coming and going and visiting and socializing. It's too much!
