On the Mother's Day cards, I found the section that said "Separated from Wife, hopeful......", but they were sold out so I had to skip on a card this year. ;-)
We had couples therapy yesterday and I got "busted" so to speak. Our couples therapist asked me directly about whether I would still want our marriage to work and I felt I had to be honest so I said yes. It took my wife by surprise, but I felt like I had no choice.
The Mrs really used most of the session for her which I'm glad to see happen because she needs help. So much patience in having to let her walk through her part of this process and just walk the line that is so hard to do. I was glad when she reached out to me again last night via text so I'm not worried that I scared her too much being honest during therapy.
So many things said yesterday wanted me to jump on them but I have to bite my tongue and let her go through her process of seeing everything. I know if I push or try to push her in any direction it will only be opposite of where I need her to go as she needs to go through this herself....
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
