I can tell that you are really angry. I understand that you come here to vent. It is certainly better to vent here than to vent to your W or even many other places. Is the venting helping? Your posts justs seem to be getting more angry and more defensive.

If you feel better by venting, feel free. Have you considered doing something else though? You seem vindicated that you are doing the right thing and that the courts will see your arguments. What would happen if you just let the courts deal with it then? Probably not an easy thing to do. Leave it up to your capable attorney and try to forget about it for awhile. GAL. What would you be doing differently tomorrow if you woke up and there was no divorce to worry about?

I know alot of my advice is really crazy and out there. At least I hope you read this and realize that there is a different mindset you could have. It may not be the one I propose. Whatever it is, your mindset is the one you choose. What mindset do you want?