One more thing...read what Jake (I think jake1974) is telling his W when she inquires about what he is up to...take note of his comments to her about the present state of their R how he handles his conversations with her. He agrees with her, saying that perhaps being apart is what they need...and it is making her think twice...but remember, this is for you too. You need to know that you will be o.k. no matter what. You need a life of your own for now.
