You probably need the pros advice on this one, or your coach if you still have one. MWD says to take it slow and your wife has said the same thing yet wants you to move. She is looking for reassurance that you are committed and that has to be through actions, words alone will not reassure her. Does that mean moving there right away? Vets?
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13