W continues to be very pleasant, very polite and over nice to me. Why? I know I should not analyse her right now. But I have done nothing different. Is it because she is going away soon and is meeting OM.
How does a W act when she is due to meet OM, moody, very happy, distant. I would have thought she would have become distant but there does seem to be a pattern of being extremely happy before her trips away.
Mine is always very happy prior to her trips away, and there doesn't seem to be any OM. It's an escape for them. Get away from the life they are so unhappy with. My W said she plans on taking all the discounted trips she can get from her work, and has been doing a good job at it!
If your W is not distant and/or secretive, I'd say that's a good sign.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
