Whatever you do, stay calm. Listen, take notes and go from there. They all say that they want what is fair for everyone...bottom line...when he discovers that you are not going to give in and stand your ground on what should be "fair", he may very well get ugly.
It's okay to listen, but please do not agree w/anything. Tell him you will need to think about his proposal.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
