That's great you are bonding with S10 through this..
I've been meaning to ask you. Didn't you mention somewhere your W wants you to ask your brother how they took care of their divorce because they did it amicably? But isn't that something your W should do if she wants to pursue D?!or does it not matter at this point?
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins