Thanks for getting back to me and sharing your sitch. Well I couldn't agree with you more. Even with the kids growing up and not seeing any affections from mom and dad, i don't want them to think this is how married life is. Everything you have said is where my mindset is heading. I think LBS at some point reach that timeframe and say you know I did what I can. At this point I have satisfied myself and say that I did what I can.
I tried for 2 years but the sitch keeps going in circles. If I call it quits I won't have any regrets knowing that she's still not respecting my boundaries. The next course of action is to remove me from this and I'm not going to be her shield anymore to cover her from her actions.
Good luck to you Leo, I'll be following your updates.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
