Well good for you, AZ. It's still pretty early on after the D, so you'll probably want to take it nice and slow and keep it casual while you continue to work on you. But I think it's good that you've decided to do some dating.
You might also want to consider speed dating. It might seem odd, but I hear you really learn a lot about what you're looking for in a person by talking to a large nnumber of different women.
I wish you the best, and of course I hope your xw has a change of heart.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13