I like the menu UW, I think we just need something decadent for dessert. And hey, if you want to, bring some of your laundry for my H to do at 2:00 am lol!
Yes rH, his behavior is baffling to say the least. But I understand he's gotta do what he's gotta do to work it all out. Still trying to stay out of his way...
Have been reading a lot about reconnection, the difference between touch-and-goes and the real deal.
While I realize TRUE reconnection isn't going to fully happen while OW is in the picture, I believe it can begin to happen with her still hanging around. Just as he slowly lost interest in me, he can slowly gain interest in me.
And I believe that he is.
From hero's spouse ~ "Touch-and- goes are about testing, information fishing, putting out feelers and reassurance. The MLCer feels guilty and ashamed for causing you pain. Will you accept him, be kind and friendly even though he was not that way to you? They are testing both your forgiveness and acceptance and the integration of the two.
The Monster that was your MLCer is gradually crumbling, and the person he will become is not that monster. Will you be able to love, accept, and forgive that new person, knowing what the Monster did?"
That is yet to be determined...
Okay, turning my brain off for the night - or at least trying to
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
