Sounds like you have a great perspective and when she knows you are changing for good, she will trust you and OM will not be an issue even if he is around the gym. I know mine isn't now and we run into each other every so often, I just wanted to share where I was mentally/emotionally when we were first trying to reconcile but your post makes sense - and yes, I have been following your thread for weeks and things have changed a lot. You are giving a lot of us hope
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13