Sleeper, You made me realize that I might run into problems w/X once I remarry. (With that said, he is so passive and depressive I'd be surprised if he had that much fight in him.)
I think you're doing the right thing trying to work it out w/C. For one, you might save a ton of money. For another, maybe your X will calm down and think more about the kids and maybe get her head straightened. And you might, too. In all seriousness, you might learn things about yourself that could help you going forward.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D