Yes, dropping all expectations and simply living the best I can is immensely empowering.
I added the BD to my sig.
There is no reason to be envious jp, just stick to the plan! The advice that people offer up here has a lot of merit. It just takes whatever amount of time that it takes to progress through the various stages of your own sitch. Nothing can speed up the process. Just keep working on you, detaching and GAL. You Will be ok.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal