Sandi thank you though. I do appreciate your insight and everything you said seems right regarding the W. Nothing I will say will change this now nor am I expecting it to.
M: 43 W: 43 Married: 17 Together: 20 BD: 4/8/13 no legal or physical S as of yet 3 kids: S:14 D:13 D:9 W admitted EA: 5/5/13 Mediation started: 6/3/13 W says EA is done: 6/30/13 - still interested in D