When you have a moment, please sit down and make a list of all of the "positive" reactions she has had towards something you've done. You may have to review the list to see which ones can be repeated.
As for the "in love" feeling, it will return for her, but the depression is still smothering it a bit. I'm going to toss something out there for you to think about...what did you do on your very first date w/your w? Maybe it's time to repeat that first date and see what happens...just food for thought.
I know it's a hard journey, but it will be well worth it if she can just feel comfortable in her own skin. The "not sure" mode is very typical at this time because she's sitting on the fence and doesn't want to let go of her safe haven and venture forth into the real world. Keep dropping the crumbs and I think it's time to start thinking about that "first" date in this new relationship.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
