No he hasn't ever been violent. I do think that a third party would make it worse.

Right now, I'm just trying to figure out when to tell him. I don't even know how to word it. I may have to sit on it for a few days to get my emotional strength up & ready for whatever the reaction may be.

I think he may be out of town next week. Would it be bad if I waited until he was gone or right before he left for the week?


M 34
H 35
D 7 D 6
M 10 T 14
Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013
BD 12/15/12