No he hasn't ever been violent. I do think that a third party would make it worse.
Right now, I'm just trying to figure out when to tell him. I don't even know how to word it. I may have to sit on it for a few days to get my emotional strength up & ready for whatever the reaction may be.
I think he may be out of town next week. Would it be bad if I waited until he was gone or right before he left for the week?
M 34 H 35 D 7 D 6 M 10 T 14 Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013 BD 12/15/12