smile thanks spartan. I do work out but at home. I used to really like video games but that is part of a 180 as it built resentment. Money is tight so anything might be stretching the wallet. I thought about golfing more but that adds up. I am honestly finding it hard as we never have much time with kids and the downtime was nice to have at home. I might just do coffee someplace for now till I can figure it out.

I just had the correct conversation with W. "I said Im done doing this anymore. Although I dont agree with this I want to you to do what you want. You said once that if you loved me enough you would want me to be happy. But i want you to just do what you want." And then I walked away ... she seemed slightly off when I said it.


M: 43
W: 43
Married: 17 Together: 20
BD: 4/8/13 no legal or physical S as of yet
3 kids: S:14 D:13 D:9
W admitted EA: 5/5/13
Mediation started: 6/3/13
W says EA is done: 6/30/13 - still interested in D