Just left my T's office...and you know what? She's right. I have a ton of money and energy tied up in this house. She is trying to force me out the door for whatever reason...and why should I? Why should I have to give up everything here. Theres no room in an efficiency apt or even 1 BR for my tools, dive gear, and other belongs I own. I will get to take a couch and bed...maybe a dresser or two...but thats about it.

I guess I am waking up. I need to have some pride and stand up for myself. Just because she is full steam ahead toward divorce...and she cant stand to look at me...why should I cut and run?

The only thing I worry about is that she'll leave, and I cant afford the mortgage on my own.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013