[labug]

My dr puts his patients having multiples on bed rest at 28 weeks.

Switch doctors, I know you're probably not going to do that but it's an option. That's pretty old school, not dangerous but old school. You could also negotiate with him/her week by week.

Give yourself time to think about this, it's a huge change in your plans.

Cat04, I have no idea what your 3rd sentence^^ says. Was that deliberate?