I think h dropped bomb no 5 or 6 on me ... I had an appt scheduled with the counselor , h asks whether he too can come along . I agree...as apparently the last thing he had told c that he will try to work on the marriage..
I did not really take this seriously as he the following day had sent me a text saying he would like to take s alone for a vacation.. I did not reply to the text.. He did not mention it subsequently..
Over to the current appointment( post final holiday plans )with c , h tells her to tell me that I should have no hopes with regards to this vacation..and that he is doing this vacation only for s.. This is after I told c in front of him that I am just taking one day at a time and not looking into the future..
I really do not understand the need for him to do this.. He has pretty much done the bookings himself.. No r talk, no indication from my side regarding any expectations..
a couple of days later he suggests we shop together for the vacation ^ ^ -
He also told c that he is severely stressed about his job.. Investment bankers are really finding it tough to survive.. He said he is no frame of mind to decide on anything.. He told her..
Never before have I reacted so casually at his work stress..his Mlc has changed me in many ways....
So we will vacation .. Him with his job threat.. Me with ow threat ( am positive sudden work will come up in ow city when s and I are away at my sis)..
Though s really very excited .. Hoping to read Db again at my sis..
Ps- new 180 for me , went for a late night movie show all alone.. Shocked him..asked me many questions regarding it!! Can't say I enjoyed the movie more or his startled reaction ..
Cheers
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
