Update ...

On Friday nite, W went to gym as always and stayed out until almost 10pm afterwards talking (drinking too?) with friends. I helped a friend move some stuff, and then we came back to my house, had a few beers and a pizza dinner with my 3 girls. What made me a little upset is that we've been in the habit of calling each other when our plans change or we'll be late, and she didn't. I told her this, and she apologized.

The weekend went fine. On Sat, went to a b-day party for a friend of D12 with the entire family. It was a nice day, and we hung out all afternoon into the evening having a good time with the other parents.

Sunday was Mother's day. I helped my 3 girls make breakfast for Mommy, and they gave her cards they made a gift that I purchased with them. The gift is a pocketbook and my W immediately moved her stuff from existing pocketbook to the new one. My W's love language is gift-giving, and this was a round-about way to get her a gift. Afterwards, we spent the day remodeling and preparing for remodeling of the house.

At 3:30 my W went to person's house to exercise and said she would be home by 6 for dinner. At 5:30 she called to say she was on her way home (making up for not calling on Friday?) Interestingly, while I was finishing the BBQ she came out and told me about her exercise and how this one girl didn't show up. The girl decided not to go and spend Mother's day with her mom. I felt like asking my W where her priorities were since she went, while this other girl didn't.

We got along well all weekend.


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