Dan, if I am reading her texts right, she is 100% full bore set on moving on with OM. She is being selfish, and as much as that hurts...its not your fault! Dont blame yourself, embrace yourself.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
We didn't meet, yesterday. Her family had some sort of drama. We will hopefully talk some time this week. I will do my best to listen and validate. I've had an emotionally turbulent week, but I feel very good. Yesterday I got my kids for this week and had some trouble, but worked through it. My boys (8 and 10) are hurting a lot and trying to hurt everyone around them. I straight up told my youngest I can take it and let him slam into me for a few minutes like a tackling dummy. Finally settled into play wrestling and we had a great evening. Back to work today. Supposed to be a normal, busy week.
About last week, I took a long walk in a torrential downpour and prayed and cried and yelled a lot. It was sort of a ceremony for me to take off my wedding ring. I'll carry it on my keychain until the D is final. Then I'll put it in a box of memories and put it away. And I'll get through this.
I still haven't "gotten served." Does anyone from TX know how this works? Should I ask W more to make sure I understand? I'm supposed to have 20 days from receiving notice to be able to respond, but I think that is not consequential in my case since I don't have plans to counter-sue.
I'm hurting somewhere. I don't really know how to find this feeling, but I know it is somewhere inside me. My heart has been torn in two. Sure, I cry sometimes. But why can't I feel more? Why am I so numb?
I still haven't "gotten served." Does anyone from TX know how this works? Should I ask W more to make sure I understand? I'm supposed to have 20 days from receiving notice to be able to respond, but I think that is not consequential in my case since I don't have plans to counter-sue.
Did you Google search your name and the county? Did you sign a waiver of service?
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
I googled it, like you said. The only site that looked likely wanted me to pay for a membership to see it. I haven't seen any papers or signed anything. I just told my dad to let me know if anything comes in the mail.
Did you sign a waiver of service? Did you sign anything?
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
