The important thing is that what you are doing (changes, 180's, etc) seems to be working. Tat-boy is a distraction, the move, who knows. We always forget when we dream of some big change, like moving, or being free of a M, that once we get "there", that we are still just the person we were before, just in a new environment.
My W tends to latch onto an idea and is very reluctant to let it go at times, maybe this is at play with your W and the only thing you can do is to let time have time maybe with that aspect...
Hang in there! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
