You are doing really good with your detaching if you are at that point where you question if you would even take her back. You shouldn't want your old life back with your W.. you should want a new one if/when you and her ever come to that point.
Well put N72. I am right there with Papa in my sitch, and IMO, I think we all need to get to this point to be successful DB'ers.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life