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No I am not gonna date. Just been thinking all day about the advice from my MIl.. I spent the evening again with my W and Kids tonight. Had a good time..


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Last night went well.. I really enjoy spending time with my family. Took care of a few erands. I bought Pizza and we watched a movie last night. The Cowboys were not playing in the super bowl so I wasnt interested in the game last night.
I went home kinda early last night because I was tired but all in all I have been spending a lot of quality time with my family lately.


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I had another good night laast night. I dropped my son off last night an picked up my laundry. Then I went to the gym for an hour. When I got home I noticed that my Wife had called 3 times, so I called back and SD answers and says Mom is on her way over. W comes over and wants to check her email. So I let her, she hangs around for a few minutes. Then says well I dont want to bother you.. I said no bother, not at all. I told her I had just got home right before she got here..After A while I told her I was at the gym and she sounded relieved.. Nice hug and hand holding when she left.. All in all another good day..


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I think it sounds great!!! No fireworks just nice calm interaction.

Way to go!!


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It's tough to just appreciate the calm steadiness that starts to emerge, isn't it? That's what we are all striving for, though, isn't it?


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Yeah it is tough. Sometimes I feel like it is the calm before the storm, then other times I feel like it is the calm after the storm. Only time will tell


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I dont know why but damn I am down tonight. I have my son for the next two days. I should be up today but I am not.
I picked up my new glasses today. W didnt even notice them when I was over there getting my sons clothes. But then again that something that she probably never would have.
My workouts are going good. I can see my waist getting smaller and myarms and chest getting bigger. My W has commented about how I used to be bigger muscle wise then now. So thats one of my goals to get more muscular and leaner.. Not for her but because I want to get back to where I used to be physically.
W can read me like I a book. She kept asking me what was wrong when I was over there.
I am sure I will be better tomorrow...
Gonna change the oil in my truck and clean my truck and garage tomorrow..


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I dont know why but damn I am down tonight. I have my son for the next two days. I should be up today but I am not.




On the verge of sounding like a hypocrite (as I do this too) - why? Is there anything specific? Kind of sounds like you're telling yourself that you are doing this for you, but when she didnt comment (she may have noticed but didnt comment) it brought you down.

I do that crap too.

Just enjoy your time with your son and put her out of your mind - your mood will improve shortly. One thing that may help, if any female flirted with you in any way (you know what I mean guys overread that stuff) just think about that for a min or 2. It may help lift your PMA. Dont let her set your PMA - set it for yourself.

Once again, mr hypocrite checking in...



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I have been down all day, just not because she didnt notice. She never notices anything so its nothing new that she didnt. Must be that time of the month.


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What I mean by "must be that time of month" is that about oncea month for no reason whatsoever I just get down for a couple of days. Usualy coincides with the time that W pms's.


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