Hey Negril, I read your recent posts and I think we're at very similar points in our sitches. I was thinking of writing a letter to post here, as well, but I think that would be counterproductive.
I have lovingly detached from my W and I'm ready for anything and looking forward to the future. There is a part of me that worries that my detaching has come so far that I wouldn't want to go back even if she were to make overtures.
Maybe post what you want to say here so we can give some feedback and maybe get some tips of our own!
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13