I was thinking about your sitch the other day and here it seems like we always advise "standing, standing and more standing". My own H was the one to request the D and it did give me the perfect opportunity to show him what his life would be like with out me.
He even put on his list of "pros" for returning, that all his "stuff" would be his-- we wouldn't have to divide and sell, etc. I can see with him returning back home that connecting with previous hobbies, habits, etc, has been an important part of the journey.
I don't know what that means to you, but I wanted to share it and know that here we are behind you every step of the way, no matter what choices you make--you have the "freedom to change at any instant". Yes, indeed.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
