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I can take my life anywhere and any direction I want it to go now... I have read enough now to realize that I have to get out of the way... Out of my W's life...at least for now.... The sooner I do that the better it is for both of us.. I want what is best for her and me...and that is to let her go on her journey... to find her way.. whatever that may be...


Hey N72- Been keeping up with your sitch just not much to offer really. I have to say, this is where^^^^^ I am in my sitch too. For me, this realization is what is/was needed for me to move forward. Trust me, it is tough, but the more I do the better I feel.

Do you have one final conversation?...IMO I would say no, you are not going to say anything she hasn't heard already or even wants to hear right now. Show in action and she will get the message. I would like to beleive that if our S have anything to say or want to know, that at some point they will ask or tell. Just My two cents.


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life