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[steveh27]

Hi BD - I am around pg 17 in reading your bootcamp. It was amazing to have the knowledge of your situation and I was able to relate a lot to mine own. I haven't finished it but it seems we do have some differences. Your W seems to want to have relations with you but at this same time wants to take her time but also is cake eating it seems. My sitch is my W is clearly really hurt still and is seeing moving on as the only option. We do not have $4000 just to give right now for her retainer as it will cripple us and I'm concerned this is moving way fast.

I have finished DR. My issues seem to have not interfered since the BD, and oddly I have been learning to self soothe through out, except for today. I haven't honestly been pushing, except for Mothers Day, but that was half for the kids than anything. Yeah I wanted to do that well and obv I did, but her comment got me.

I needed to clear my head last night bcse as great as the day was, we both know where things stand.

She is just not at the point of believing right now and I am concerned that she doesn't care too anymore.