I'm not sure I'd respond at all....or maybe a "I understand your position. I don't think I'm emotionally ready to have that discussion yet."
That said, I think you are pushing too much and not giving enough space. Let her come to you...don't keep looking for things to talk about.
How are you coming along? Have you finished DR? That will help immensely. How about your issues? Making any progress?
Oh, and I don't think work can be your GAL. I completely get burying yourself in work at stressful times...I have done that too, but it's not going to give you the relief that true GAL will. Exercise, do something where you are going to meet new people and feel good about yourself.
