You have to go on YOUR timeline. Was the relationship healthy for YOU? What do you want? This isnt going to be quick.
She is telling you what she feels now and she may hate every single bone in your body right now. That, obviously is not how its always been. She fell in love with you once...It CAN happen again - if you decide to invest the time to work on you.
Go back to your house and give her distance. No questions, no snooping. Live as room mates and do things for you
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
