Mothers day was a B#%%h for me. You are doing real well. Im impressed with the fact that you havent spoken about the OM yet.
When I think back I believe that my W was going out of her way to make me know she was having a affair so that she wouldnt have to tell me- must have been a little too uncomfortable for my W to admit to having a affair in a mature, civilized conversation.
At this stage they wont talk to you about anything substantial if its uncomfortable for them - because they are selfish and wouldnt want to subject themselves to that. I would assume filing for D and having you served falls under that catagory
LOVE your GAL activities- and keep building that R with your S. He is going to need you now more then ever. My D3 is asking me alot of questions regarding her mommy. If son isnt there with you yet- they will come. I recommend a good book about dads with sons and D or if you currently have a therapist ask what he/she recommends you say during this transition to co-parenting.
stay busy and continue taking care of you
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
