Originally Posted By: leopoldstotch
Allowing your W to live in hour home while actively having a physical affair with another man is pure Beta.

It's not Beta, not even close.

It's Omega, the very last letter in the Greek alphabet.

Beta would be a vast improvement on where you currently are, SM34.

Originally Posted By: leopoldstoch
As long as you allow her to do this she will and she has zero respect for you. Trust me I know I was there before.

Yep.

She has zero respect for you (and you have none left for yourself) as surely as night follows day. Please stop needing to be needed.

TAKE THE POWER BACK.

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)