Concerning, LRT...I think that I have technically been doing this for a while. At the beginning of our separation, H would call me late at night, or just at random times. I wouldn't answer, and he eventually stopped. Now we do not speak, unless for business purposes, or apparently if I run into him randomly. I discovered awhile ago, that trying to keep contact with him, just proved to hurtful for me. He would answer the phone, but just go out of his way to be rude, or speak to me as it I was bothering him. So I think, that even though it was not my decision, I'm firmly in LRT. Do you think, I should try and speak with him? From what I know, he is still w/th OW
It just seems like this can never turn around...
I hear this. This is very similar to my sitch...but KD is right when he says...
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It may certainly feel like the sitch can't turn around, and again, there is the very real possibility that eventually you will be D.
Continue to move yourself forward as best you can. It isn't easy, but it will get better. And there may not be a fairy tale ending, but there is always the chance that you could R.
You should keep hope if that is what you want...there is always a chance to R as KD says.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
