Perhaps you're right Papa... I feel the same as you - my W rushed through things at such a fast pace - I see her for about 1 minute oncer per week these days so it's very hard to imagine how we'd even have a possibility to reconcile.
Be strong I guess and take every day as it comes. I can't see anything positive happening to my personal sitch until if/when her relationship with OM ends - which looks very unlikely at this point in time...
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013