Good plan, Mr2.4. I would imagine that you felt a need to at least check out what your future options might be R-wise post-D if things don't work out as you hope. I can completely understand that curiosity.

But I agree with you when you say it's a distraction. I think we all need to keep focusing on ourselves with no expectations and leave the road hime paved and smooth. And dating could only put a major speed bump in that road smile

Good luck with your 180s and goals. We're here for you if you need us.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13