WAW having affair, still living in separate rooms

[kenva]

So s and I had a great weekend. We hung out w friends and even w's sister and her friend for a while. On sun, w came to pick up s. my in laws were w her. I told in las not to invite me to dinner w them, so there is no pressure, and to throw her off , knowing she would be expecting them to ask me. W was evil cold. I could see the anger in her, because if in-laws interacting w me. We have a great relationship. She needs to know that even tho she wants to end m that it will not affect anything w me and her side of the family. W talked to a friend that day that I was hanging out w, and asked her about her s in-law who got a divorce and remarried. Asking if she likes the new husband. She said, not really but it's not what I like as long as she is happy. My wife responded to her, that's the way it should be. W is trying to justify and convince herself of what she is doing to our marriage is for the best. All about her.