If she goes thru with this how could I want her back?
My wife and I met in church. We had a very intimate friendship, though we never kissed until our wedding. (Neither of us were virgins going into the church.) We had great honeymoon, but things went downhill very quickly when we got home.
I have been rejected emotionally, physically, and sexually for 10 years. She has had a number of emotional/facebook affairs and served me with divorce papers. I'm willing to work it out with her and we are in counseling. People tell me that divorce isn't the end.
Here is the question that troubles me: I think I would be foolish to go into a 2nd marriage with a woman who went from meeting my needs while dating (emotional and physical) to caring nothing for my needs in our 1st marriage. Even if we rationalized having sex after divorce, I don't know what she could do to convince me she wouldn't change back into the woman who takes control of a relationship by rejecting a man and denying his needs. How do you ever trust someone who changed after the wedding?
