Grizz, while I agree about writing that type of message to the W, I would do it in a moment's notice as well, I have to admit and will probably be backed up by all the others, don't send it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
